No Hope in continuing Relationship/Marriage.....

Lifestyle Relationships
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if you are somebody that has never believe in divorces or breaking up separating from a person you thought was the one you shall spend rest of life you believe that all effort should be put into any relationship but at which point do you know or realize there is no hope?

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I didn't know anyone who have ever been in situation like this.

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Very hard question. I think everyone has a different tolerance level, as well as the willingness to work things out. For some, the situation may be one where there is no hope for return...such as a spouse who has been cheating, for example. I know couples where the husband cheated, almost married this other woman, the community got involved, the wife took the husband back, forgave him, and even had more kids after that incident. I have to say that the wife had amazing tolerance. Not everyone has that.

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it depends on the couple

when you can't stand the sight of each other, only one person is working on the relationship and there's no improvement, you don't care or love each other anymore, there's no respect by one or both, sexless b/c of too many problems, volatile(physically/emotionally/verbally scary) relationships, already living separately and don't miss each other...... :(

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there is a mathematical formula for this stuff. oh wait, there isnt..

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As long as there are some good moments among many bad ones, hope should not be lost.

There is no guarantee that breaking up would lead to a better situaton.

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yes it does depend on every person's tolerance level and what they believe is too much every situation is different

at what niksik said wow that is some tolerance level

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for some reason i don't see infidelity as so bad on the scale if everything else was wonderful, people have flaws and weaknesses, that can be forgiven for me b/c if the good times are 99 to 1, one moment of lustful weakness shouldn't cancel out all those good times.

the other horrible things that seem neverending/no signs of improving in a relationship mentioned b4 are what would click something in the mind at which point it would be time to go into a deep depression

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lol!

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if u believed to continue why u get separated .......

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for me that point would be when my spouse would pick me and throw me out so far that i cannot return :D