Re: No communication until offical
I’m not sure why you’re pretending to be clueless about the reason. Based on what you wrote last year (quoted below), it’s clear that you’re fully aware of the cons of two people freely texting each other while “getting to know one another”.
This girls sounds like a traditional girl who doesn’t want to put herself in a situation where she will be tempted OR where she has to even deal with anything inappropriate. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. If you’re serious about her then get your parents involved. The girl herself should not have any issues if she is told by her parents that it’s ok for her to communicate with you once the families are involved. Additionally, if she is not comfortable with regular private conversations, then you can also suggest that you two hang out in a group setting.
Of course, you can always do what the Duggars do with their kids. Suggest that you/girl up a group text with a 3rd person in it (friend, cousin, family member etc.). That way, you can get to know her without ever crossing the line because you know there is a 3rd person reading everything.
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