Re: no backbone?
I was willing to compromise on alot to begin with, it isnt easy marrying someone who doesnt know anything about this country, language etc… i did it before and it didnt work! I was willing to overlook the education, citizenship status etc this time because i felt that I knew the guy and that it would work OK. Because it wasnt just the lack of education and language that failed my first marriage…so i knew that these things are just superficial…as long as the person has a clean good hearth, that is all that matters!
I ahve worked hard to reach the stage i am at today. how could I let it all go? for what reason? I do not know what I have done for them to stop trusitng me and behave like that all of a sudden?
Is that sort of behaviour normal?