Nikkah without Rukhsati

Re: Nikkah without Rukhsati

and since we all KNOW that rukhsati is traditionally very important in our culture, y cant u WAIT ..n not be desperate enough.. :p obviously the nikah has been done widout rukhsati due to some valid reason. so one shud respect that !

and nikah can never lose its value ..its a scared contract in which ur makin Allah the witness. so i wonder y ppl act so irrational n end up gettin divorced. a little compromise, and patience can make any relationship work.. esp marriage, since it's with our parents prayers and elders' blessings ..and Allah's rehmat ..he puts love in our hearts ..

what do u ppl think ?