I agree with those who say that rukhsati should be done right away, ie same day or the day after nikah. Personally, this will probably not happen for me.
I'm going back home this december inshallah to get married. My parents are saying that we'll have nikah done so that we are officially married and all immigration work can proceed. My parents are saying that it would be better for me to do rukhsati when the guy arrives here becasue they are planning to have reception here in Canada too. Also, after nikah, i will only have 14 days to stay with him back home, so my parents think that it would be best if i wait.
But i on the other hand have mixed feeling about doing rukhsati later. I really don't know where to take my stance.
what would you guys do if u were in my position?