thank you so much for the information so far Ecoshan and Jias! :)
but isn't the wakeel a 'lawyer'? so how can i make a relative of mine a lawyer if there is no relative hwich is a lawyer? we have a famliy friend who is a lawyer but he is not muslim.
and is it okay if only my immediate family is at the function or do we have to call 50 family freinds and relatives that i hardly see in my daily life?