nanga,
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you dont get the point. you are very ignorant. You have no clue and no idea about what you are saying. Mutah is a very sensitive topic and you "really dont know what are u talking about?"
Dont make fun of Mutah (sunnat-e-rasool) if u dont know about it.
"It is better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid, than to open it and remove all doubts"
I agree with one point though that there are some people who abuse Mutah but its not the purpose of allowing Mutah.
The whole purpose of "allowing" Mutah is to :
*Give support to a widow or divorced Woman
*Keep yourself away from a Sin
Is that better to commit zina? or is that better to have a commitment with a girl to be her husband?
The conditions of Mutah (marriage) are:
*One must recite the aqd(sentence of acceptance)
**You need a witness
**there is the condition of Iddat
**There is the condition of Mehar
**Any kid born will have father's last name and father will be responsible to take care of the kid
* Mutah can be and most of the time is changed into Marriage (Permananet Nikah)
**Mutah is normally practised during wartime when widows of shuhada need support.
Now let me ask you this,
**Whats the difference between aqd-daime (the nikah or shadis that you normally do) with the permission of giving divorce and Mutah? Well, you are allowing those kinda Nikahs where a Male can destroy a female life by just yelling "Talaq, Talaq, Talq (divorce)" three times and its all over. Wow! and when somebody talks about keeping yourself away from Sin, that hurts you. What a double standard policy.
Let me ask you this, how many guys do you know who have a wife in Pakistan and are "dating, gambling, raping, and drinking beer" in Uk or USA? Maybe few. I know them. I know quite a few of them.
You really wanna know what they do?
Ok here. They call their parents in Pakistan and then call their wives and tell them how much they love them. Then, the same nite they get dressed and go do "partying" and "clubbing". Where the hell are these things coming from? Why double standards?
Why going insane and crazy for lust?
Why not be honest and truthful?
Do you like that kinda life style? I guess Yes. Thats why you are against Mutah that much.
The stuff I mentioned above is called cheating, flirting, clubbing, dating, going out with girls or lets put it one way "filth" or "munaffiqat". Saying something else and doing something else. This is a terrible disease.
Is that better than having a commitment with a woman and giving her the rights to be a wife?
Its "very very very" difficult to completely follow the procedure of Mutah. You think, its a joke, its not Mr. You need courage and guts to explain Mutah to a girl. Believe it or not, a western girl will go miles away from you if you ask her to do Mutah (Nikah) to you. Yes offcourse if you ask her to go out with you (which many of your freinds do), she'll be more than happy to do that with you. Is that better than having a commitment?
Sincerely,
Humble.