Do I really have to be nice? or do we only have to be nice to ppl for ALLAH SWT? to make ALLAH SWT happy? if ALLAH SWT is happy then we should do that thing, otherwise even forget its existence.
Do I really have to be nice? or do we only have to be nice to ppl for ALLAH SWT? to make ALLAH SWT happy? if ALLAH SWT is happy then we should do that thing, otherwise even forget its existence.
Yes! you got to be nice all the time...............
it is actually good for your health too...:)
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You don't need to be nice in a sense that someone always tries to underestimate you and you still are ignoring their khuamkhua ki stubbornness :). Some people do not acknowledge your nice intentions, I won't say that you also should treat them rudely but meet them fairly, you don't need to become extra nice to the people just be what you are, & keep your part fair, by doing this, a main is always at a safe side.
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I have always been nice to everyone, even now i am,
abhi tak pachta rahi hun :hinna:
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^ is main pachtana kaisa :). Any type of good never goes wasted.
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Okay.. yes, when your nice to others, Allah is happy with you. But forced-niceness (being fake basically) isn't very nice and at times can be kinda obvious (in which case, you'll just annoy people). Plus, Allah swt knows your intentions anyway.. so why the need to be fake to make Allah happy? Allah swt doesn't NEED our niceness, if we're nice we'll get rewarded for it by Him, we'll feel good & others will feel good aswell.. basically, it'll do US good. So we should try and be nice to people, and mean it.
Oh but if you don't feel like being nice to someone, just make sure you don't be nasty either :@:
pachtawa yeh hai ke jin se hum achhe hue woh log kambakhtay nikle :hinna:
aur phirbhi hum achhe rahay,
I knew what u meant word by word. Literally.
But i will still strongly advise you to remain calm, content and happy with what you are. People like you are rare. And if someone doesn’t know the worth of a diamond, its his fault, not the stone’s. So 
Chill, and pray that you’ll also find some nice people, while u are alive and kicking
if you are regretting about your past actions then you are not nice to people for ALLAH SWT.
Okay.. yes, when your nice to others, Allah is happy with you. But forced-niceness (being fake basically) isn't very nice and at times can be kinda obvious (in which case, you'll just annoy people). Plus, Allah swt knows your intentions anyway.. so why the need to be fake to make Allah happy? Allah swt doesn't NEED our niceness, if we're nice we'll get rewarded for it by Him, we'll feel good & others will feel good aswell.. basically, it'll do US good. So we should try and be nice to people, and mean it.
Oh but if you don't feel like being nice to someone, just make sure you don't be nasty either :@:
Allah swt doesn't NEED our niceness.....hmmm
then why even be nice for once? what is a point if you want to seek ALLAH SWT's happiness?
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^ What I mean by that is that Allah swt isn’t dependent on us being nice. If we’re not nice, WE will be miserable and others around us will be, we might even be hurting them by our miserableness. If we ARE nice however, yes it will make Allah happy with us, because we’ll be making ourselves and others around us happy also. Allah swt WANTS us to be nice, but if we’re not doing it whole-heartedly, then how nice can we really be?
I don’t know about anyone else, but ME, when I’m nice to someone, I do it because it makes them feel good and in return I feel good. I don’t really go so deeply into anymore then that to be honest. If I don’t like someone, then I avoid them altogether so I don’t have to be fake 
if you are regretting about your past actions then you are not nice to people for ALLAH SWT.
may be one can be nice for Allah on tuesday and then be influenced by devil on thursday and regret tuesday's niceness. but on tuesday the intention was pure anyhow.
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I am not regretting on past actions, lekin hum insaan hain na.
Let's say, you always be nice to someone, with pure heart, and people keep being ugly and ugly,
aakhrat mein yeh aapke dimakh mein ayega na, ke why am i being nice to these people who dont deserve it?! right.
That is not the devil's influence :)
^awww i wasnt talking about you. just a random hypothetical scenario.
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Such a nice thread.
ok sorry,
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Sometimes it's exhausting and really hard to be nice to some people. In those cases, I recommend that you choose honesty over formality, works wonders with them.
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^ ;)
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i guess if u dont want to be nice to some ppl u can always be stern and they may get the hint...
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Achi niyat honi chaiye, agar aap ache insaan hain to achayat bhi khud bahar ayegi.
and for those people that be bad towards you dont speak with them, or avoid any contact with them. The world is a big place theres no point wasting your time with such people that cannot give anyone anything other then pain. Akhirat mein jo aapka hai woh apko milega aur jo unka hai woh unko milega