newly marriage issue

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Have been married since 6 weeks. It was an arranged marriage, me And hubbie get along well with each other. He seems happy with THE marriage. Today something happend which disturbed me. Me And hubbie were in THE car, coming back from work, he get messages And Call from another girl. He didnt receive Call infront of me And deletes messages so That i cant see them. We couldnt talk abt This since other people were around. I Dont know how to react on This situation?

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THIS situation is purty ghambeer. Sorry to be THE bearer of THE bad news. But it Looks like THE marriage of the century is over. =/

You DO need to get your hands on that cell phone. To learn how to accomplish such a feat, jald Nadz123 se raabta karein.

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Maybe she's some ex flame jo peecha nahi chorh rahi hai? Maybe it's not his fault at all. I know how you feel!!

Confront him!!!

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OP, you can't really do anything except talk to him. Don't accuse, discuss the matter with him. His response will hopefully give you a better feel for the situation.

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I would recommend you to wait for the other time when it happens again!! all this time..be vigilant..!

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so he did not pick the call in front of you and deleted the msg too, you still figured out that it was from some girl?

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for god's sake. you got the guy. leave it be. give him time to cut ties himself.

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how do u know it was a girl?

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must be a good guess that it was a girl, cause if he is avoiding a guy's call and deleting his messages, then the problem is more serious.

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newly marriage issue

I know it was à girl cause i saw her name

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why hasn't he deleted the no? If he had no NAME would have come up...and you wouldn't have suspected anything.
Chillax.

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Dont worry, things like these do happen so try to deal with it sensibly and calmly at the moment.

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confront him head on...we wanna watch the bull fight! :D

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The message was written in pink font.

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It's alright.

Give him some space. You don't need to talk about it. If it happens again in front of you, then maybe you can casually ask who it was. It could be an old friend and because he is newly married to you, perhaps he still doesn't know how you'd feel about him talking to other women. it doesn't mean he is having an affair or something.

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I write in pink font all the time..

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If its bothering you, talk to you him about and first see what he has to say before you jump to any conclusions. once you speak to him and you need more clarity, come back to GS :)

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:omg:

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Ask him casually without being accusing. The caller could be just a friend and he's afraid to tell you thinking you will misunderstand.