its lovely that you have so much help, but you should definitely learn how to bathe your baby, change him, etc. on your own. its important! and also, these are all very special moments with the baby- YOUR baby- so don’t miss out! share the responsibilities with your mom, MIL, ayaas, etc. but don’t shy away from asking for your own time doing them. i guess this will make sense once the bubba is here and you feel that incredible rush of love