To be honest i had this issue, getting married with someone from back home ... my dad was adamant he wanted a pakka pakistani guy .. and I did give in, but the proposals I got frightened me to death !
I found majority had hidden agenda's .. like the girl is from a well established family and she will take me out of pakistan .. her father will get me a job .. and crap ...
and trust me i am not the type of person who wanted prince charming .. I just wanted an educated, self made guy.. looks didnt matter to me .
Some I literally wanted to strangle with their ego's higher then the wall of china and mummy's boys .. no spine what so ever ... these kind of guys are always trouble later on , coz if the wife is doing better then them , they start feeling insecure ..
but i am not going to stereotype all men from Pakistan, I have now come to know of some really good guys as well .. :@: