My cousins brother-in laws friend’s dad (lol)…his dad had 4 kids and was married for 20 years and he was having this online affair with another woman who had a kid not sure if she was married or not anyway his daughter found the emails on his computer and told her mom and all hell broke loose it seems..he confessed and said yes i did it..and he said alot of things in his e-mails to that woman like “i can’t stand my wife..i will leave her soon..etc”
sad part is the woman is still with him cuz he claimed it was a mistake and his friend put him up to it…sick i tell you…
^ I cant imagine how a child could even pretend to respect a father who's behaved in such a decieving manner! Astaghfirullah. How can ppl be so self-centred? that too at a mature age... who loose the ability to stop & think about the repercussion of their actions?!?
^ I cant imagine how a child could even pretend to respect a father who's behaved in such a decieving manner! Astaghfirullah. How can ppl be so self-centred? that too at a mature age... who loose the ability to stop & think about the repercussion of their actions?!?
father or no father, fact remains that in the end he is a human being and all humans are bound to make mistakes. and age has nothing to do with maturity. i can show you a couple that separated after 42 years of marriage with grandkids. when things are not working, they are not working and you know no matter how much effort you put in it, it will not succeed. so better to call it quits than to make ur life miserable as well as others.
^ i know adults make mistake... but the mistakes they make are less excusible then a person who lacks maturity... cheating is not done by accident, its deliberate... and brushing it off as a mistake doesn't cut it. You expect more from a person who has kids, you expect him/ her to think about how their selfish actions affects others (particularly their kids!!!)... acting like a victim of an unhappy marriage isn't an excuse to cheat on your spouse... leave the spouse in an honourable manner if you must and then move onto the next person.
I cant imagine the hell a parent would put their kid through if it is the kids who catch 'em cheating!
accident is when you reverse a car into a poll .. well hogaya.. khair hai ..
cheating on your wife, specially when you have kids with her.. its like cheating with your whole family.. its inexcusable. no matter what.. if you don't like the wife anymore then leave her first and then marry whoever the hell you want.. but don't drag her into the craphole with you..
Okay, so i know this guy for about 15 years. Nice gentlman, accountant with good job, married, 3 kids, a daughter and 2 sons. Well respected in community. When his kids are grown up, he gets "involved" with a married woman!
Starts spending his money on this woman and investing in business of her husband.
His reputation is ruined, family is fissured, yet the guy goes on and on.
One would think that by 45-50 years of age one has matured enough not to fall in this mess but, it looks one is never too old to screw one's life.
wow, never knew Faisal would do such a thing. Oh well...
yeah its really sad that you seem to hear similar stories very frequently
i have to say though i'm sick of ppl blaming it on a mid-life crisis, i mean come on! we expect teenagers to grow up and be mature yet we allow grown men with families to get away with stupid things because they are going through some "phase" in life? i think its a lame excuse
Okay, so i know this guy for about 15 years. Nice gentlman, accountant with good job, married, 3 kids, a daughter and 2 sons. Well respected in community. When his kids are grown up, he gets "involved" with a married woman!
Starts spending his money on this woman and investing in business of her husband.
His reputation is ruined, family is fissured, yet the guy goes on and on.
One would think that by 45-50 years of age one has matured enough not to fall in this mess but, it looks one is never too old to screw one's life.
