Re: Never thought I would share it ....
HUGSSSSSSSS
Whatever you wrote, after reading it I must say you are such a strong girl who have put up with all this for 5 years. 5 years is not a small period of time. We are talking about 60 MONTHS here……
Let see….. well I think what you need to do is take small steps…..
Go to your mom’s house for small period of time. Maybe that might bring change. Whatever you wrote from that I don’t know if you have already tried it or not. But do that first hand, don’t tell your husband I am leaving you and I am gona divorce you. Just tell him that I need to relax a bit so I am going to ma mom’s place for a weekend….. and then just stay there for couple of day or more……
Come back to your house and see if that does bring any change in him. While you are at your mom’s house, try your best not to contact him. Completely cut all contacts with him.
You are with him all the time so he doesn’t see why he should put effort like you did.
So when you are gone, he’ll miss that friend to be around and when he won’t be able to talk to you or see you, he’ll realize that he is not putting effort in this marriage to make it work.
Sweet heart remember you met this person who solved all your problems, have you ever thought in those 5 long years that all your worries and problems will be solved in just 2 days. Nahi na? it happened because of Allah’s will...... aur ager Allah chahega tu wo zaror zaror tumhare husband ke dil main dale ga ke he needs to change he behaviour.....
Does your husband pray? He needs to start praying, reading Quran ON TIME. Insallah insallah nothing is impossible
i'll say it again...... u have to separate from your husband for a little while to make him realize what he is gona miss if he didnt put any effort.
Your in my prayers……… be strong :)