Neglect and Ingratitude….

Gratitude to husband and father is mandated in Islam, she fakes religiosity to feed her, I am better than thaugh mentality. She didn’t wish me a happy birthday, even though I make such a big do for everyone. Then they wonder why I found Sam.
Sam is dealing with possibly terminal health issues and still stayed up to wish me.

Hope God blesses her and gives us a miracle, prospects are dark without her.


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Wishing you a very Happy Birthday Bobby! :flower1:

Thanks my young friend. I gave myself a treat and baked yummy Salmon. I just got texts, perhaps they got notified on SM 652C5C37-6C43-4BD0-A35B-87DACCD6D788.jpg


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Uncle Shrek, how do you make love to someone you’re not in love with and still manage to dish out 2-3-4 kids of the same woman?

You wouldn’t wish me schit if I were to marry a different woman that wasn’t you, duffer

nvm

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Assuming four kids from the first, that makes it 8 if not 12 years. You obviously did find her sexually attractive during all these years hence why you went on to do the deed by churning out multiple kids out of her

After four kids, suddenly did not find his ballooned up first wife as physically desirable, thus went after a new chick

You sucked religion wise when she wanted her kids to have a father who could teach them religion growing up. Secondly, any semi-religious woman with kids will have issues with her husband plugging cannabis in his butthole​

I found her extremely attractive and loved her dearly, still do. After the first kid, she neglected me completely and thoroughly. I like goodbye hugs, welcomes when people get back home, none of that, never expressed love, never gratitude, never dressed up specifically for me, intimacy was like khairaat
Sam would put my socks on before I went to work. Give me goodies to munch on, wait on the balcony for me to get home, would dress for me. Put hundreds of notes for me on Valentines, she expressed her love several times a day.
The first one now says I am the only man she loved ever, but yet never in her actions did she show that.
If she had showed the slightest love or attention, I would not have left.

This is pure religious bigotry as She thinks she is so much superior as she says namaaz
Her most respected namaazi brother in law is a friggin paedo.

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I celebrate every member of the family, make them breakfast, pack their lunches, make amazing birth day dinners. Amazing thanksgiving, Christmas eid Ramzan food. She never participated in that. When it comes my turn….Nothing.

Well, the kids got a cake at night. Now my kids do friends giving and I help the kids for preparing the food for their friends.

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this is how you express love


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Every single day I show appreciation for her, She is very ill. I have huge regrets from the past where I didn’t show enough appreciation and people left this world, every day I will tell her how much I appreciate her. There is no love, there is no appreciation without expressing it


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Regardless, the said woman is still a mother to her children. I'd rather forgive than continue to avenge my losses. A single kid, let alone kids, takes plenty out of you as a woman already

And here we have a notoriously hypocritical pervert that can’t go a day without making profane sexual comments & maa behen ki gaali galoch on a female dominant forum, now toiling hard to resuscitate his decomposed reputation by playing women’s advocate against Bobby1 (of all people to choose from).

Beautiful :nook:

@Bobby1 Don't bother explaining yourself to someone who seeks 2 seconds of undeserved shine-time by exploiting your comments and bringing you down.

Thanks @Cashmere I am a very duty bound person, I took care of my parents my sisters, my mom passed away in my care and I still everyday work to the bone cooking, doing groceries, cleaning, working, working out and every dollar I make goes to their luxury and I get abused on a daily basis, today she threw a heavy cup at me and got very violent. I did not reciprocate for a second. She went after Sams and my career, she tried to mess with Sams daughters Susraals. I just need to vent, nothing else. Also in this country, when there is separation and the lady is angry, the kids only belong to the lady. I wasn’t even invited to Safy’s graduation. I did everything for his education, drove out a thousand Km to cook and freeze food, drove his boat there and all sorts of things.
I feel the abuse can come from the lady also.

Service towards others will always be returned and compensated in various forms of blessings. Hang in there, the universe doesn’t operate under debt.

Hoping everything straightens out for you. It is totally acceptable to move on from and against abuse, be it a man or a woman. Everyone deserves to be happy.

Maybe she needs to vent too? Maybe you’ve done tones of offensive schit that she just cant let go of? How many sides on a single coin, cutie?

She probably vents in her own unique ways by throwing a cup onto a big macho dude who can obviously take the cup head on. Duh. She backbites against you, you tend to do the same to her. A vicious good for absolutely nothing cycle is what you all adults be on about

End result: Your children get to take the brunt of the damage because their mentally disabled parents couldn’t find a way to keep calm and linger on

Mentally disabled look a lot like you, all 3 kids are amazing international level athletes, great social skills, disciplined, structured, hard working and very popular.
One of the reason I didn’t leave is because all her nieces and nephews are extremely overweight and entitled. Didn’t want my kids to turn out like that. I had a vision for them and as per @Cashmere that was universe giving back to me. If I didn’t have my kids best interest in mind, I would disappear like no one can find me. Good manners, showing appreciation, gratitude are essential in having a good character. I find ill mannered, rude, abrasive people disgusting.

Harris has amassed a million views on his Tik Tok, Safy has millions of views on his music besides being educated and being fit.

MA, my sacrifices brought good results.