What do you do when you have a friend going through a rough time and has just become bitter and negative? They've been through tough times, but at hte same time...all that negativity drains you. U dont want to abandon them because they're a friend....but being around their negativity doesnt help you either.
Anybody felt like this? Know what im talking about?
I know how u must be feeling. Try to continue supporting your friend the same way because good and bad times come on everyone and someday (God Forbid) you might need your friend same way.
My best friend's suffered loss of a loved one 4 years back which was a major blwo to her I was there for her she doesn't have a sister and she used to share with me same details over and over again because it's used to give her peace. Now I am going thru a rough patch and this friend of mine makes sure to take time out for me from her v.busy schedule and take me out evey weekend and even during the week. What goes around comes around :)
i know exactly what you are talking about. and to be honest i dont have time to listen to them so i have decided to IGNORE THEM and focus on MY family, work and studies.
they are married women and they chose that life for themselves. neither i forced them to get married nor i am to be blamed for their marriage. ALLAH SWT has granted them aqal and also parents...so its better either keep their personal life to themselves or either share it with their parents and siblings. i ain't responsible for their problems. and to be honest all they do is brag about their so-called problems....they dont even listen to your friendly advices. so its good to IGNORE THEM.
What do you do when you have a friend going through a rough time and has just become bitter and negative? They've been through tough times, but at hte same time...all that negativity drains you. U dont want to abandon them because they're a friend....but being around their negativity doesnt help you either.
Anybody felt like this? Know what im talking about?
keep ignoring the rude behaviour etc . with time everything will be normal