What do you do when you have a friend going through a rough time and has just become bitter and negative? They've been through tough times, but at hte same time...all that negativity drains you. U dont want to abandon them because they're a friend....but being around their negativity doesnt help you either.
Anybody felt like this? Know what im talking about?
Long ago during our student time, one of my friend was very bitter due to some family issues, he seems to found me someone whom can take out all his anger and frustration he has with others.
On my part, on my part i have no doubt about his sincerity towards me, and also I understood that he is not angry with me but he has so many bitterness in life he could not express, all i could do is just help by allowing him to vent his anger on me.
I am not sure if that helped him but after 30 years we are still best of friends like brothers. He is now is a reasonably successful businessmen, and doing great work for society, not only he is running a dialysis center for poor (with some contribution from others as well), but also taking care of medical expenses for many sick peoples from his own pocket.