Negativity

What if that person wasn’t there for you during a tough time of yours, or even a happy time? They abandoned you, deliberately.

I dunno if i agree with that or not. I always thought its supposed to be effortless..if its this hard, then is it really worth it?
The thing is, I know this person who has been in a “bad place” since i’ve known them for 8 years. I understand they’ve had a tough upbringing, and family problems…but i dont know what im trying to say here xactly…

Yup…only so much one can be used as a crutch. This is the first time i’ve been on that side–i know there were so many people who put up wiht my crap in the past…and im so thankful to them…but i realize now how awful it must have been for me t keep bothering them…