Re: Negativity
1- there is nothing demeaning in sara's post
2- good advise from others
3- give them and yourself space, check in, but dont get sucked into long venting sessions, because you can only be a crutch for so long for their own sake..tough love has to be used sometimes too. dont abandon, but dont think just because someone is going through tough time u have to always have things go their way..or bend over backwards..unless the individual is really immature they understand people's needs and commitments, even if they lash out at first