Re: Need to vent..
- *u got no clue what i wrote and what i meant/what i wanted to ask
- u got no clue how i usually contribute
- u ve got a serious problem with me n my posts
- completely irrelevant to the topic just because you wanted to respond to my post (“good to changed it, otherwise i would have banned u or something”)
- you would be the one who would eventually be responsible for derailing the thread (i would respond, u ll reply, others will jump in, etc. etc.)
- predicting at some point u would mention to exercise your authority - to even ban me (which you did to STA)
- looking forward for comments by deeba, rv, etc.
i.e. LOL
*my fav
for reference - in the original post (which i erased later) i asked the OP whether both of them (husband n herself) had pissed off their parents and thats why they were not cooperating, etc. then i read it again and the issue was way to complicated and i didnt want to be part of the Q&A. now the wisdom behind me asking is nothing to with anything except to find out of it could have been their mistake. my philosophy is no matter how much the next person is at mistake first one should find out his/her own mistake (for a variety of reasons) if you yourself are at fault then in my opinion you should rectify/apologize first and then if the behaviour of that person is unchanges figure out what is the matter. so rather than jumping the gun and blaming the other person of mistakes/faults/flaws one should first determine their own. and this is what i was wondering in the case of OP.
i dont know how does it seem nasty in any sense form or whatever, but im not here to clear that from people’s mind
on a lighter note - i admit im from lahore not educated btw i own shops in lhr therefore language barrier mightve been the case - my eng not good as you can clear see/read also i dont review my posts lol
ps just as a rule of tumb if someone finds something offensive others should respect it (assuming a number of reasons, as well as giving the benefit of doubt for not fully understanding the reasons behind it) - based on this, the people who say this is ridiculious reflect their own personality