Re: Need to vent..
And unlike YOU, Villageyaar…I have the maturity to know the difference between a hypothetical situation and a real one. I know when one says “IF” …then that’s like saying “Farz karo..”…and that’s not a gaali. But you seem to have equated it to a cuss word. Heck…even when I’m talking about a negative situation to my mom and said “Farzo karo…agar aap ka saath/hamaray saath aisa hua hota”…she doesn’t take it as an insult because it is obvious to those that have sound comprehensiont…that the purpose of posing hypothetical situation is to coax empathy, to think of a situation from different perspective, to sort out your thoughts, etc. There’s a difference between saying to someone “I hope your sister gets raped” and “What would you do IF your sister had been raped or was in that situation.” You seem to think of the former as a bud-dua or something and that’s not the case.