Need to vent..

[Chameli420]

Re: Need to vent..

@Ashy2010

Chameli, Congrats on having a baby. Consider yourself lucky as only the fortunate people in this world are blessed with children.

You need to distance yourself from your family. Your family is going through difficult times. You have contributed a lot in their tough times and they should be grateful to you for that but you shouldn’t continue on the expense of your health and your happiness. You have some responsibilities towards your parents so try to fulfil them (by paying them on monthly basis an amount and doing some khidmat). But you are not responsible to solve your siblings’ problems. Relationships are not One way. Your family should also need to understand that you need them. If they start to respond in a positive way, you will be lucky. Otherwise, you need to focus on your baby and husband. Your baby needs your love and attention and you need to care for your husband also since he is the one who is always there for you. Make your priorities clear and stick to them. Everything will be fine.

thanks dear:) but its not easy doing my parents khidmat while being in another country. I can only call and listen to them but they have stopped telling me stuff cuz I have told them about my postnatal depression and also been crying a lot while visiting them last time cuz i just couldnt bear with things anymore…seeing my father being so weak and ill and all the other stuff our family went through just made me cry so much..now my parents dont tell me if they are not well..