Re: Need to vent..
Yes Deeba, shame shame. I am in total agreement with RV.
Clearly you didn’t get the GS memo on what qualifies as an insult. You see, imaginary insults are just as grave as actual insults. What you actually said is irrelevant - if the other person’s feelings are hurt because of something you didn’t say, you still deserve infraction points. Why? Just in case, preemptive measures, and because you ought to be more sensitive young lady, really. If you’re still confused, please refer to the following illustration. A desi parent randomly slaps their kid while the poor sod is playing, minding his own business :
Kid (bawling after thappar khai-ing) : “Arrey?! Maine kya kiya?!”
Parent : “You never know. Just in case.”
The above, by the way, happens to be an effective parenting technique. Please also note that when a subcontinental male hears maa aur behen in any context, they will logically conclude that you are questioning their paternity.