I feel bad for the poor kid. I think the mother really needs to change her attitude towards the kid and to be honest this thing is quite common within asian communties - i see it all the time. All you can do is talk to the mom and show her that if she does change, then the consequences will be so good and great that their daughter will grow up to be a healthy women who loves her family and will do anything for their happiness. If the mother continues to act like this, as her daughter grows older, she will only drive her away. Unfortunatly thats what my mother did to me.
Bunnyhoney we have tried to talk to her mother. she thinks she knows everything and is doing nothing wrong. i have told her to open her mind as things will be different once she goes to high school, she needs get involve in her kids activities and give then time. but she says that she gives them everything its in their nature to act such way.
she needs to improve her language skills as well. but she wont listen.
lately,my nephew went to their house and when went to pick him up, aunty was in kitchen and herr kids in their rumpus rooms watching english movie there was kissings scenes in the movie. i was so shocked as they are too young to watch such stuff. there was no supervision
its so hard to explain and convince desi mums. they will control their kids in one way and expose them to unnecessary stuff on the other hand.