Need tips on bride's sister's outfit

[Sara516]

Re: Need tips on bride’s sister’s outfit

@Paheli00

Yes, did just write how much my sister weighs. Is there any reason I shouldn’t? I don’t think a person’s weight is something to be ashamed of. If someone wanted to my weight or my other siblings weight or my mom’s weight…I’d be more than happy to post that too. And your potato sack comment was really uncalled for. As I already wrote that she has self-esteem issues. If I didn’t care about her or how she feels on my wedding day…then I could just let her “deal” with this on her own and not even bother. My one and only “agenda” in posting this thread is to get some HELPFUL tips/advice. I’m sure you have plenty of sarcastic comments to amuse yourself with but I’d greatly appreciate it if you could keep them out of this thread.

And yes, I did say she looks different that me, my other siblings, and my mom because its a fact. I never said it made her any “less” than us. “Different” doesn’t equal “bad”.**

And I know curves can be awesome when played up right. I’m not asking how to get rid of her curves. I’m asking HOW to play it up “right”.
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Thanks for the response anyway.

When someone already has self esteem issues, then their weight can be something to be ashamed of. YOU may not be ashamed of your weight because it may be considered healthy/normal for you, but if you were overweight/obese for whatever reason…I’m sure you wouldn’t want to share your #.

You could have just asked how to play up a larger figure/darker skin tone without going into your sister’s medical history/self esteem issues/writing her weight.