need sum adviceee

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ok guys..i need sum advice ..
da thing is that my cuzin.. shez in luv wid dis guy fer 2 yrs.. but couple of months ago, due to sum misunderstandingz n bla bla bla..it was like ‘its over’.. but my cuzin she had a hard time acceptin it..

eventually she accepted the fact n planned to move on, but dis is wat happend.. fer 3 consecutive dayz.. after prayin fajr namaz she saw da same dream over again n again.. in which she saw dis old man askin her not to 4get dis guy’ ..

dis really distracted her.. i mean she was like when i decided that i wanna move on n walk outta past.. y r da dreams distracting.. her..

well then we all adviced her to perform isthikaara..
n then after doin so.. her feelings were completely changed.. i mean she started to feel the same love she had fer him before..

but da question… is dat.. its her who started to think that way after.. bu da guy hasnt moved a step forward yet.. n thr not in contact..
wat does that mean..??
i would like to know wats da significance of da dreamz n da dramatic change in feelings…??

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pre-marital love is never supported by Islam....
so dont take it to be any siggn form God....
it cud be an illusion of the devil....

Allah knows the best....

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Pyar ko tou aajkal logon ney khel hi bana liya hai. As for your “cousin”, she needs to not contact the guy as the guy also has feelings. First, she leaves him saying “it’s over” and now because of this dream she wants to go back? How will the guy feel after being told “it was over” and now the girl comes back and says “oops, hehe, my bad, i guess i didn’t think before i said anything”?

just my opinion :rolleyes:

oh, and by the way, i think dreams are reflections of what we think or concentrate more on throughout the day. if something is on our tiny little minds all the times, sometimes it comes in our dreams in shape of images. Prophet Mohammad’s :saw: dreams were true but we are ordinary muslims. don’t know about it from any religious prospective, maybe someone else can guide you and i both, and your “cousin” as well.