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This is about my cousin n The story is a little bit long but i hv to explain so u guys can give some advices n suggestions actually my cousin sister live in uae n his cousin in pk so when my cousin was in grade 11 his cousin send msgs abut love n likes to her so first she didnt reply coz she was not interested at all about tht n every time he msged especially on eid n she told her sis which is younger than her she said tht cousin is sending msgs n all tht n her sis said ignore n all however her sister got married to tht cousin’s bro which was a love marriage n alhumdulillah they are happy after my cousin sis finished her 12th she start liking his cousin n start to sending msgs n all but they didnt talk on phone at all coz my cousin said to his cousin if u really love me send ur mom n let her to talk to her then i will talk to u n he said yeah but give some Time n she said why did ur mom will not accept me he said no actually my mom said who ever u want i will go to talk their parents and then her younger sister went to pk so she heard tht abut his cousin tht he talk with girls n ect and my cousin asked him he said no i talked but now im not anyways he promised n thts all but my cousin said if u liked me let ur mom talk about out rishta then i will talk to u so she stopped talking to him abut 1 year but still he sent msgs on eid after tht my cousin’s brother told her mom he want his sister so after one year his brother got married to his sister so now my cousin’s sister is babhi of that cousin which she like him and his sister is babhi of my cousin and both are good n happy however my cousin came from pk after his bro wedding his bro her cousin sent msgs n said wat happen y this all she said coz of u u r playing with me n i knw u hving relation with other he said no n he said allah ki qasam anyways after few months he send msg said to her i cant marry u coz my brothers are not agreeing so she got angry n said y u before u said something else n nw something else and then my cousin asked her sister did he talked to jejo abut this she said no coz my husband never mention anything abut u n actually my husband said thr his bro want to marry someone else n his mom doesn’t want n her sis heard all this on phone also while he was talking to him then her sis said to her husband y ur bro is doing like this is he lied n played with my sis he promised my sis n nw he want someone else he was shock n said i will talk to him after few days his bro talked to him he said wat u did with ur cousin did u promised n said tht ur bro dont want to marry her he said nooo never i didnt promised her at all im not talking to her i didnt said like this so now my cousin is so upest n worried y he did like this she is so upset coz he played with her feelings but still she love him coz she trust her alot n now the problem is she still love him n cant even think about anyone else now i just want wat should i say to her need help

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Woah a paragraph would have helped i am so confused

So a brother & sister married another brother & sister? But the younger sister also likes the other son but hes not commiting? Tell your cousin to just move on im sure there will be someon better out there for her

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I think you'll get more replies if you add full stops :)

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The 160 character limit of an SMS has spoiled our teenagers beyond repair. I'm hopeless now!

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You have a bigger problem than ur coozin. Your writing sucks.

Paragraphs are very good for you. But they are even better for our sanity

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One long sentence of a confusing story with a lot of cousins. :halo:

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If this guy is going to lie and manipulate your cousin now, he will be a terrible husband. Tell her it's good she realizes this now, rather than later. He seems like a bored teenager, not a grown man ready for marriage. Tell her to find someone else for herself. He can be someone else's problem.

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How....how did you understand OP?!!!!!

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You read the entire thing AND understood it?! :d6c:

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Hai Allah

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maiN to vaise bhii detail nahiiN paRhtaa magar mashware zaroor de detaa huN. mere liye to koii naii baat nahiiN thii. :D

OP, kia kahaa aapne? zaraa muKhtasiran bayaan farmaaiyegaa? :( j/k :)

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What kind of a stupid sentence is this?

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I think ap Kahna chah rahen han kay koi Problem ho gai ha.... Act upon ur Signature

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woah !! this is really confusing !! from what I read, I guess its something like this your cousin sisters were approached by two cousin brothers. elders got hitched as they loved each other and the younger couple, the guy cousin is playing around..no?

Well if above is the story, I guess your cousin sister should move on. That guy isn't worthy. She will find someone better
if the story is something else, I would still say your cousin sister should move on as the guy she is involved with isn't serious about the relationship to begin with

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Like most people have already said, she needs to forget him. He probably just used her as time pass.. as they say.
He had fun flirting with her online but never intended to ever marry her, so she should count herself lucky that she found out how he is now and move on with her life.

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As if my work place Monday-Inbox was not good enough to deal with, here comes lorem ipsum

PS: Sarah 09, You are 09 years old or were born in 2009, either way its too early to advise someone on love. Go play, have fun :)

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I didn't understand anything. Grammar and punctuation please.