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It is nice to get a few days away from your spouse, at least once a year hona chahiyay.
I have no concerns about letting my husband go off and do whatever he wants, in fact I think its great. I find it pretty unhealthy when couples do everything and go everywhere together. I want all my lives to be seperate, my professional life, my life with friends and my life with my husband.
Also part of the reason I let him go off on his adventures is because when I want to go on mine with my friends, he can't say no!
once i have kids though, then yes I'd get upset if I always had to stay at home and take care of them while he gets to enjoy himself, not because I'm being clingy but because I deserve that same right.
In return, will husband keep the kids for 3-4 days while letting wife go on adventure trip?
your posts always hit the nail right at the head :D
shouldn't giving space come from both sides?
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We automatically get space when my husband is away, my daughter gets to watch cartoons and movies and I get to play my video games :D
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yes we women are chipkoos, real men love that about us :---p
I bet the wives of some of the the men in here would actually pray shukaray ke nafal if they went away for a while.
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^ lolz
What space are you talking about. don't get married and have that 'space' for the whole life. live and let live :D quite simple
I agree with Decent 6Chora's question. When my husband was here, he never used to let me stay at my parents' home (he just allowed me to spend whole day) and I always respected his this wish or order, I never felt that he is being 'chipkoo' and not giving me 'space' etc etc. Now if he goes abroad for 3 months then don't I have a right to call him back because I need him. If he considers me chipkoo or anything like this then not my fault, that's the way he thinks.