One can do all of this with his wife, provided he marries a like minded person who shares similar interests. This is why arranged marital setups are an epic bore!! It’s more of a forced cohesion.
If you love adventures, marry an adventurous girl and be the next Indiana Jones and Marion.. If you love attending rock concerts like me, don’t just give that up, marry someone who’d love to go with you every time, just don’t get wasted! 