Re: need some serious guidance
^psq, it's not just that. i can relate to the poster so much, the only difference is that hubby is the only person who makes me softer.. but even then occassionally that part of me comes out.
it's not always about being angry or anything like that; even in a normal conversation if it's something i'm passionately speaking about it can sound like i'm shouting at the other person. completely inherited from my dad. thankfully, he knew i was like this before marriage and he'll always just remind me of what i'm doing when i'm doing it. and i don't take offense, because i know it's my prob and i stop and take a breath and start again keeping a check on myself.