Thanks heydou for your support.
I try expressing some when she starts feeding, but within few minutes she starts to pull away crying and when I express at that point, flow stays fast.
Th lucky one or two hours sleep that I get, ends waking up with engorgement.I just dread feed times now. She clamps down so hard to control the flow that its awfully sore for me,and stays sore well after the whole torture episode is over:(
I will try what you have suggested and let you know how it goes, thanks a lot. Im hanging on to every piece of advice these days xx