Re: Need some advice
My advice is also what others said.. Try to get in touch with the girl and find out who and how she really is.. I mean you saw her, you liked her.. And said that she’d be suitable as your wife.. But who is she..? What are her likes, dislikes.. get in touch with her like a friend.. Is she comfortable with all this..? Aahista aahista you’ll get to know her and find out if she’s really the one.. Try to get to know how she feels about it.. If you get a positive response, then it would be even more easy to convince your parents.. With a positive response from her side it shouldnt effect their friendship..
Other than that you also have to find out for yourself what do you like and want in a lifepartner, because I read a lot about what your parents want and think.. But I didnt really get how do YOU think about all this.. Your parents wanting a traditional, not so educated girl girl for you.. But how do YOU feel/think about all this.. A girl (any girl) who’s open minded, modern, having male friends, working, high educated..? Afterall.. you’re the one who’s going to spend your life with her.. And you should let your parents know about how you think and feel about all this and tell them what you want.. I think your parents also should keep this in mind what their son wants.. And not just persue what THEY want.. because YOU’re the one who’s going to start a new life..
Seriously..?! THAT’s the most important thing they’re worried about..?