Re: Need some advice
i think the trust issue on his part arises from the fact that he myt feel intimidated that ur so educated.
He sounds like a div but to be honest im not so keen on the way youve slated him... its obvious u hate him, before u turn psyco and end up killing him u myt aswell end it. Are you sure u havent tried making it work? maybe try an talk to him and save ur marriage... You have alot of resentmnt towards him, u blame him for losing ur best friend, u feel like u cudve done better but u shud of spoken before you married him. Your obviously not willing to actually give it a proper go again, could it be as a result of something u did wrong or are doing on ur own part.
Maybe instead of totally ignoring his request of u studying further u can explain it to him, try talking to him like a mature adult. Maybe its too late now, maybe u guys have acted immaturly towards each other that this relationship is beyond repair. People like him take some time for u to win over his trust and it seems to me u havent tried to win his trust. A man like him requires much patience, patience many girls dont possess these days. On the other hand i could be wrong, maybe u have tried but u just havent expressed it properly.
I dont know, but all i know is that no man would be happy with his wife being friendly towards a guy who loved her. Its common sense and human nature.
It seems like in this relationship u guys are bad for each other, I know im no one to judge but i dont think u made thinks any easier for urself.
Yeah the whole visa and money thing is stupid i suppose from what youve said he sounds like a jaahil but ur parents must of seen something in him to marry you to him.. and why on earth did u agree???