Re: Need some advice
Oh gosh I mean if you're obviously the educated one why didn't your parents choose someone more suitable for you? Plus sometimes it's good to marry the best buddy, if you have mutual things in common I mean. And since you're educated why did you allow paindoo thinking to influence you so much? OK yes I know the izzat-issue, but uggh you can have an arranged marriage with someone who suits your means and everything, no one should be mismatched like that. Marriage is a commitment and no plaything, I guess there should have been some discussion about your future as a married couple BEFORE the actual nikah took place. If you're not willing to change and if he is not willing to change and if none of you is willing to make compromises I don't see how it will work out.
I don't want to sound mean or anything, just curious...I cannot imagine myself in that situation either. Inshallah it works out for you.