Re: Need some advice
He is from Venice and you are from Mars. You two are not compatible in any shape and way to be husband and wife. He is not the kind of man who can deal with a marriage to an educated , well mannered and well behaved woman. It has nothing to do with his not being educated , many many uneducated people behave so decently. The decision is yours , you want to add some more miserable years to your life by giving this marriage a chance or you want to live a happy life.
Your parents cared more about getting you married to same zaat , that has nothing to do with religion , it was so pathetic of them. They did not want best for you they wanted best what suited to their so called image in their own cocoon like society or culture.
So pathetic . I am so sad and disgusted after reading what you are going through and what you should look forward to once he is with you. You are right there is no hope for this match made by your naive parents.