need some advice

[chamali]

Re: need some advice

@AnGeL_EyEs

wow chameli…i’ve been following your threads and I really do feel for you

I am really glad that you are trying to do something about this rather then just complaining about it. I must say one thing…whatever you do…**don’t lie to your husband. **If you are quiting your job then tell him that you are quiting and your reasons for doing so. I think it’s a great idea that you are planning to further your education and perhaps you can tell him just that…that you are quiting to further your education.

I see where you are headed with this “plan” but once again the biggest mistake you can make is lying to your husband about any of this. Be honest and forthcoming with him. In the end chamali…do what YOU want and what is best for YOU and your piece of mind. It’s not like you have children to worry about right now ..thank God! Just remember to be tactful and respectful…they are his parents afterall and you are in a very delicate situation.

if I tell him that I am quiting my job he will go against me and his parents will come to know and they will fill his ears even more and I am just afraid he will turn against me. I dont want to hurt him, I just need him to realize everyone for who they are. If he knows I quit on purpose while he needed me to work then he will surly turn against me. He will not be able to afford everything by him self and will have to ask his brothers for help. I know his brother are very qanjoos people. they will not give him a penny and bug him to get a second job. I just want him to see this side of them so he will know that what ever money he is investing in them will not result in any gratatude.