need some advice

Re: need some advice

Chamali, does your husband realize that he (or his family) has no right over your money? What you make is your's to keep. If you decide to spend it on him or his family, that should be YOUR decision, not his.

I wouldn't suggest you make up a whole story to tell your husband you lost your job. Just quit. This really is insane. If his brothers are married, why don't they move out? It's understandable for him to take care of his parents, but unless his siblings are babies who can't take care of themselves, you and your husband (which I'm sure you already know) aren't responsible for them.