Ahmed...i think wat ur friend needs right now is support and comfrt... just becuz he dint have any reaction to wat has happnd it does not mean he is not in regret at the momnt.
think about it... we all make mistakes...and then learn from them.
yes this is a case where a child is involved and it cud have gone badli wrong!but alhamdulillah this is not the case. inshaALLAH i hope his son is going to be alrite.
my advice to u is tht u shud let things calm down alil, and then apprch ur friend in a humble manner. make him understand the fact tht he now has a family to support and luk after. its time to grow out of the kid within and start thinking about his wife and son b4 himself. even if he was alone in the car and ALLAH 4bid something went wrong it only needs a split second to turn things around] wat wud his wife and kid do?
carfull driving is ok but confidnt driving is BETTER! and over confidnc or under confidnc can kill!
accndts happen ... no matter how much of a careful driver u r... and u ppl [the ppl who have said some rude things here] need to knw tht. its not how to avoid an accnt its how to handle it! tht counts at the end of the day! if u r careful but its writen in predestni tht this willl take place at so n so time...u need to knw how to keep everyone safe including urself!
one woman actually said 'u deserve it' stop talking crap...no1 deserves anything like tht! remember to wish 10 times more for the nest person b4 wishing for urself...by u saying u deserve it ur just putting the sin upon urself... if u cant say anything nice plz dnt say anything at all...its a hadeeth!
i dunno y u ppl r making ahmed to be the targt becuz its clear he is worried about his friends son and his friend too! he has posted this for a reason and tht reason is simple advice...if u cant advise then dnt ...but dnt put the flt on some next guy whos asking 4 help!
dnt let stupidity prevail! READ UNDERSTAND AND APPLY!
FI IMAN ALLAH