Re: Need Serious Suggestions bummer
Your friend needs to be strong about his decision. This woman is totally mentally unstable and definatly needs help. His arguement about his child needing both parents is only valid if the child has no negative affects over the situation. That child will grow up in a house where domestic abuse is present. That is hardly teaching the child any good nor will it guarantee stabilty for the child in the future. He needs to get the child away from his wife, get her family to sort her out and maybe move in with his mother until the wife sorts herself out. Its not an easy decision but if he wants hope for both parents to raise the child then ur friend deffo needs to give her time to sort herself out. Theres noway in hell she should be allowed to treat him that way, It'll only be harmful to his self esteem. That woman needs to get a grip over herself and if she cant then theres a place for peope like her and its called a mental asylum.
You really need to stress to ur friend to make a decision and not to go against it until he's not 100% sure things are getting back to normal, otherwise she'll never sort herself out.