Re: Need quick advice
When you didn't get what you want from this friendship/cousin relationship, your mind started to do its magic on you... We will never know the reason as to why he didn't attend your sister's wedding.. But just calm down a bit and think for few minutes.
maybe he wanted to avoid someone at the wedding and decided not to show up and deflect the whole drama.. cause obviously he can't tell you or your family not to invite certain person just because he got some issues with them..
Maybe he didn't come due to a bad skin, maybe he was sick ... sad & depressed that day? And when you tried talking to him to see the reason him being not there, his excuses were lame because he didn't want you to show is weak side of him...
I think you must go to his wedding, go up to him and congratulate him.. that's what I would do... and I tell you why he asked someone else to invite you to his wedding, because you gave him a cold shoulder after that unfortunate circumstance which made him even more hesitant.. but deep down his heart, he really wants you to come.. so my advice, you should go with a bright smile on your face.. simple as that!