need opinion if I am overreacting

[Reha]

@sfkhan7797

My husband came to US about 8 months ago. Few days ago I found out he contacted and talked with his khaleri sister. Now about this cousin… she liked my husband and even told elders that she wants to marry him. However my husbands family and husband himself said no. After my shadi with him, the cousin started ignoring me and acting rude so I just ignored her and dint care.
However, I am soo pissed that my husband went out of his way to contact her when he knows that she is so rude to me. He said he wants to ask why she is being so rude to me. She also doesnt have a good reputation and is considered awara.. He did not tell me while he was talking to her because he said I will get upset..
He said it was a few minutes of talk and a few messages but on the bill it shows that there where 150 messages and 136 minutes in a matter of 3 days. He even called and messaged her around 1 or 2 am. I feel so heartbroken whenever I think of these numbers..

When I asked him about this, he said he only talked to her as a sister and nothing else.. and told me everything they talked about. He keeps reassuring me that it was very innocent family talk. He accepts that it was mistake to talk so late at night and keeps apologizing to me.. I do think he is sincere but I feel like I cant trust him anymore. I get soo jealous if he even looks at a girl. I am torturing myself thinking like this. Am I right to feel like this?? WHAT SHOULD I DO??

I would be upset if I were you too. Thats not normal. However, if he apologized and realized his mistake…you should try and rebuild what you had with him. Remember, he is already married to you. He said yes to marrying YOU…not her.

@sfkhan7797

Hey guys, thanks so much for the advice. It realllllly helps.. yes I think he did grow up for a few years in pakistan with this cousin and then lost touch cuz she came to US.. so thats y he was wanting to talk to her and find out whats up with her life. And yes Magic Ball I think your right that the cousin did have issues that my husband was trying to sort out.. He heard rumors about bad things she is doing so wanted to ask y she is acting like this. The thing that hurts me is that he hid it from me and the texting and calls also happened so late at night.. i wouldnt have minded if he showed me..
and I never had this jealousy feelings before this incident.. now I am having to work on this issue and have patience when he does have a glance at some girl.
and about the cousin.. i do say salam but she acts like I am a ghost and walks past me.. so I just dont converse with her either. Just hope I never have to interact with her everrr!

Sooooo…she wants to speak to your hubby and not you?

@sfkhan7797

so how should I act now with my husband?? how can I start to regain and build back the trust??

Talk to him, do things with him, be with him and let time heal your wounds.