Re: need number desp!
As I understand, girls are Islaamically allowed to refuse a marriage, it is their right no matter what the reason. If the gal says NO, then NO should be the answer.
Sadly, there are more than a handful of these marry-the-cousin-and bring him over types of marriages, forced upon unwilling gals. Hence the need for such "forced marriage" hotlines.
My prayers are with this gal, I hope she gets some good advice from the hotline and escapes this forced marriage.