Re: Need input..
Gina, like others have said, its a very very bad idea to let friends use your phone to text him. Some things are better kept between a couple so talk to your fiance first. Like someone said, if your friends change after getting married, you will deem it normal. I know i have changed quite a bit but everytime my husband asks me to do something and iw ant to defy him, i ask myself, is he right in doing so? And most of the time he is right . An example is wearing an abaya. he asked me to wear it and at first i hesitated but then i realised he is not being opressive, he wants me to follow the appropriate islamic dress code.