Since there has been a recent uproar by the public, I’ve decided to open this thread.
This thread is asking for your contribution on how you feel you can make this place better.
I’m not looking for shutdown answers and if thats the case, kindly step aside so that we can hear those who do have valid input to give.
I’m looking for examples/links on what you think should be avoided and what can be done to further improve TCR. What kind of topics do you propose if you bar down other topics?
Its basically a free for all. This thread will be closely monitored. Keep the rules in mind. The feedback is specifically for this room.
After a period of time, once the feedback is collected and debated over here in public, I will contact those with input that the management or myself specifically feels to be valid to further discuss the issue and look into other aspects/prospects. At that point this thread will be closed.
These rules are too general. There seems to be no difference in the rules for TCR and Cafe. You ought to elaborate them a little more so that one can clearly understand the limits. I personaly think that this forum should not be restricted in so far use of vocabulary is concerned. Such vocabulary is natural to the topics being discussed here. I recommend to be some what more lenient.
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*Originally posted by Capricorn: *
These rules are too general. There seems to be no difference in the rules for TCR and Cafe. You ought to elaborate them a little more so that one can clearly understand the limits. I personaly think that this forum should not be restricted in so far use of vocabulary is concerned. Such vocabulary is natural to the topics being discussed here. I recommend to be some what more lenient.
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Well your comments are a start.
The rules being general, Would you like to show me a few examples how should they be changed?
The vocabulary has to be clear otherwise its just a basement frat room. What leniency would you like to implement?
Thats purely academic. I have got to think on it. Let me see if I can come up with any idea but it will take some time. I hope by that time some one else comes up with explanations. You keep trying yourself if yu think that I have a valid point.
It is very hard, almost impossible to judge a person's intentions and morality when it comes to a topic such as sex. No matter how fair you try to be, your personal likings will play a big role in deciding what is morally decent and whats not.
That is why I have always been in favour of an un-regulated Corner Room forum. From what I have seen to date, the mod has NOT been fair and consistent in the manner he applied Gupshup policies. And I am not blaming him/her. It is just not possible for the mod to be unbiased.
Coco: I commend you for raising a non-issue. I think you summed it up in another thread, that if people are appaleld at subject matter discussed, they should be appalled at being appalled and lcok themselves in their mandir, curches, mosques for 5 whole weeks and not come out until they feel clean.
I for one dont appreciate gender discrimination and this website is pretty good at keeping it fair...however, if a thread addressing how big is your penis - although fine for a personal conversation between two individuals for alll i care - then a thread on breasts - personal stories about sexual incidents, descriptions of female genitals should not be shut down either.
And I KNOW that if I decided to put up a post on the various physical categories of vaginas based on physical appearance - it would be shut down in a heart beat.
I was under the impression that the main purpose of this forum is to address serious taboo subjects, sex, personal matters that may not be chai shai conversation material. Ex. Asking guppies to disclose penis size is not productive...and if there is a reason behind the question, then the guppie needs to make it clear.
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*Originally posted by PyariCgudia: *
I for one dont appreciate gender discrimination and this website is pretty good at keeping it fair...however, if a thread addressing how big is your penis - although fine for a personal conversation between two individuals for alll i care - then a thread on breasts - personal stories about sexual incidents, descriptions of female genitals should not be shut down either.
And I KNOW that if I decided to put up a post on the various physical categories of vaginas based on physical appearance - it would be shut down in a heart beat.
I was under the impression that the main purpose of this forum is to address serious taboo subjects, sex, personal matters that may not be chai shai conversation material. Ex. Asking guppies to disclose penis size is not productive...and if there is a reason behind the question, then the guppie needs to make it clear.
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Hmm...you know something PCG. If I remember correctly I wasn't in charge at that time but thats ok, I can pick up where the last mod left off.
Secondly, you asked for that thread to be closed. Which throws your argument out the window about gender discrimination. You assume if you posted on various physical categories that it would be shut down in a heart beat. Think again : )
The impression you have is correct of this forum.
I agree that asking male guppies about their penis size is not productive however the thread was not based on that very question if you read the whole post.
Edit: One more thing, if you have anything else to address (which is not contradictory to what you've said before) I'll gladly take the time to go over it.
