hey everyone. i dont know why but i miss my ex fiance alot.so much that hes always on my mind.got engaged,engagement broke.its been 6months now and hes moved on.but i miss him alot.and i dont knw why?
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Sister. Sometimes you realize someone’s worth later. Whatever the case may be, he has moved on. So should you as well. I know you will hate it when someone will say this to you. InshAllahhh. Everything will be ok. Pray and ask Allah to give you sukoon in your heart. Ameen.
I used to be engaged to someone when i was doing medical. My ex fiance and i broke up too. Our engagement lasted 1 year. Missed her too. But we both moved on and happy in our lives. I couldnt have asked for more when i married my wife. You will be rewarded for your patience. Prepare yourself for someone who may be much better than your ex fiance. And he may find someone who is better for him too.
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jo chalaa gayaa use bhool jaa
vo na sun sakegaa terii sadaa
jo chalaa gayaa use bhool jaa
move on! 
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@Hassan007 thank u so much.i agree wid all wot u have said.
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@KKF ha ha.liked that.thank u.
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Someone once told me that heart always tends to remember the things of the past fondly although if the eng broke off means there obviously was a problem in the arrangement/relationship. Heart likes to play the victim, dont fall for it!
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thanx so much.ure right.this really helped.
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I always remember my previous car until i get the new one.
PS: Find a hobby or get engaged again.
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get married
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go shopping.
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i think u should fix a meeting with yr ex and talk to him about it may be he would be feeling same may be NOT may be he insult u and it would help u stop thinking abt him i dunno know wt works in yr case
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:smokim:
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Never ever listen to Mukesh, or he will drive you nuts, oh wait..you already there, still DON’T…
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jaise heera heere ko kaaTtaa hai aur lohaa lohe ko usii taraH Gham Gham ko maartaa hai is liye Mukesh Gham ko Khatm kartaa hai…listen to Mukesh as much as possible to get rid of your Gham!
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You miss him because when he was in your life, so much of your time and mental/emotional energy was spent on talking to him and thinking about him. When that person leaves, you feel a void …you have to fill that time and void within you with something..you have to find something else to exert your energies in. Ibadat helps a lot, it keeps you anchored and gives you inner peace. To avoid it completely creates more restlessness I feel. Apart from that keep yourself busy with various activities. Until you find someone else that you feel strongly about, it’s natural to keep revisiting the past. Nobody knows what will happen in the future; the unknown can be scary…and so it’s mentally comforting to miss the familiarity you shared with an ex…even if they may not be the best person for you or did not stick around, etc etc. Make dua, redirect your thoughts, keep yourself busy, and it’ll get easier with time.
As harsh as it may sound, if he cared about you enough…he would have reached out to you. Six months is a long time. If he’s interested, he knows how to reach you…let him be the one to do so first, but don’t wait around for that to happen. It’s natural to seek closure, but the other person might not respond in the way you hoped…or may not respond at all…so you risk feeling more hurt than before. Sometimes khamoshi is better, it’s more painful, silence can be deafening…but it maintains your dignity and self-respect…which you otherwise might lose in contacting someone who doesn’t care.
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women, i tell you !!! uffff 
bibi ghar k kaam kaaj ma dil lagao, when you will get tired you wont miss anything except your bed to sleep and rest… 
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Our experiences make us who we are, I still fondly remember many girls I had relationships with many years ago. A couple I even miss a lot but it does not mean that I want to be with them or if I got an opportunity I will go back to them. The monument of life is built with bricks of memories one brick at a time. Just treat him as a memory, not moving on will be unfair to you and to the person you will meet next. If you haven’t lived with the person or shared activities with him then I am not sure what is there to miss. It is normally fantasies that people talk about.
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Just move on a better person will come its a part of life a growing process to deal with