Need help

Hi everyone! I don’t usually post any topics because I am new. But I have a dilemma and I would like some help.
I have a wedding coming up and I want to know what is in. Like is it heavy kaam or just the neck and the border. I would appreciate some picture for mehndi and valima day. The wedding is in July I think, the day hasn’t been set. I am a close cousin on the boys side. I don’t know what to wear. Please help. Thank you:)