Re: need help..i've kept it in inside me to long:'(
Your ex is not someone you need to get answers from because he doesnt have them either.
If a guy is soo easy, it only takes one conversation with some random chick to turn him against you...then what good is he? What will you do? Run around after him everytime some girl speaks to him and make sure his head is clear at all times? Do you have any idea how completely nuts you would go?
Yes, he should have known better and used his own brain to think for himself but he will pay the price for that soon. This girl he is with right now...do you think she is any good for him? That he will be happy with her? She will make sure he does nothing but her bidding at all times. Like Zobia says...khoob chakki peesay gi uski.
There is no need to look for answers from him, he doesnt have them. No one does. You need to accept their betrayal, relationship, whatever you want to call it and move on. There is nothing left for you to dwell on. If you are getting rishtey...go look at them...explore them...see what they're all about. Force yourself to move on and you will. I wont lie to you and say it will be easy...it will be hard as hell and there will be days you will want to die. But on those days...I hope you will think about how worthless this guy is and any pain you put yourself through for him will be a waste of emotions. Sounds so cliche doesnt it? Its the truth.
You're graduating...find a job...start your career and focus your energies on doing something fulfilling...like volunteer work or charity. You'll feel a ton better and all of your negative energies will be directed at a more productive target.
Men and women of his kind always pay a price...we just dont always see it.