Re: Need help concerning layna dhaina....
Very well said Mehrun... we should definitely try to reduce these rasms.. leina deina look good to a certain limit only beyong that its like giving way to wrong traditions and burden the coming generations.
Wonderz, I am getting married inshallah in november and this is what we have planned to give to the Boys side :
MIL - A set of gold kara , nothing too fancy , just something nice and medium sized and a dress suit.
FIL - A watch and a suit
BIL's - A suit each
SIL's - A gold ring each and a suit
SIL's husband- A suit
We are not giving anything to the kids in the family or the extended relatives. Just to the immediate family. Though I was totally against giving the gold rings to the SIL's and wanted to give suits instead , but my dad insisted that aik hi dafaa to deina hota hai etc ... but frankly speaking i am against too much kharcha and fazool ka leina deina ..
I hope this helps ...