I am really sorry Wonderz , you are having to go through such frustrating time … I hope inshallah the situation gets better .. have you already done istikhara? Do that as well for your peace of mind … Allah has the capacity to change hearts and we pray that your husband is able to move beyond the material things and love you for you and not the things you brought for them.
Lets keep you positive and optimistic, wedding is a very stressful time and in Pakistan some families do make it a status issue if leina deina is not done as per expectations .. So lets hope that this phase passes out once the stress of the wedding is over and you are able to live a happy and a satisfied life with your husband … may your love change their hearts forever inshallah:hugz: