Re: need advise and help
Angel - OK, that helps. So we can assumem you are not in any physical danger (ignoring that one slap). As Blessed advised, it is OK to lean on your parents. At least communicate with them. And drop hints about what is happening to you. As Blessed suggested, your mother willmost probably be supportove (after she tells you “I told you so” a few times).
You have been in the US for a year. If possible, make new friends, acquaintances.
I know this may be difficult - but try not to argue back when he gets difficult. If one stops fighting, the other is bound to stop.
Try to develop a friendship with his sister (and any other relatives he has in the US). Once you gain their confidence, this should help your relationship with your husband.
Probably both of you are young - and need some adults (such as your parents) to be a buffer (shock absorber) once in a while.
Maybe you can invite your mother to stay with you folks for few months (with your husband’s full approval of course).
And lean on folks like Blessed - she is an Angel - no pun intended.