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Asslamoailkum frnds.i need advice about my wedding and valima dress whch every girl dreams that it will perfect and good as my inlaws live in hydbd and i in khi and as i dnt have Motherinlaw so i thnk can i ask or discus about my dress with my fiance becz my unmaried sisterin law dnt knw wht thnk if i discus with her .but prblm is that my fiance do whats hs family say or do and my parents also never want me to ask or discus abt these thngs becz thy thnk what my fiance wil thnk abt me and all bt i really want my choice of dresses on that big day .So its ok if i discus wth my fiance as he lives in khi becz of job and how wl i strt ths topic so he undrstnd and dont get angry and all plz help meor i wl remain quite and let see what they bring

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it's just wedding n walima dress.let them choose if they want to..

There is so much in Life than a wedding n walima dress..

From your post it seems if u will speak to him about this he will get angry,so you want to ruine his mood?
Talk to him if u want to but don't force or push him to do this or do that.

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Since MIL is not there, who's getting your dress made? If it's really a huge deal for you and you're loosing sleep over this just talk to your fiance about it.
Bring it up somehow and let him know what kind of dress you would like. No biggie.

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ok thnks alot for yur nice and kind reply :) i have a prblm that i always think what other people will say and i got very nice eidi and suit after engagment which i liked it but one of my cuzn make fun of my things with other cuzns when i got to know i really get hurt

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I dont think you should care about that cancerian, good or bad, people will always talk. If you pay attention to that stuff, it will only make you upset. You seem very masoom and innocent from your posts so if you have enough of a relationship with your husband then discuss those details with him, or who ever will be making your dress, have them get in touch with you directly. Khala, phuppo, cousin, sister in law, whoever it is, I am sure he can ask them to speak to you about it as well. If it is a touchy subject then you probablly know the best thing will be is to keep quiet about it and not pay to much attention to that detail and focus on another aspect of your wedding. :)

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best dress on wedding night is dress........... main agey kuch nei kehu ga pehlay hi gatey main ja reha hu

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you can try to ring your sil and try to tell her that you dont want her to spend too much on clothes. then maybe you will get in the topic of the wedding dress etc... i personally did the wedding shopping for my brothers wedding and bought all the clothes for vury and also the walima lehnga. and i did ask my sil what she wanted for collors and stuff....she was bechari very shy so i asked it through her big sis.

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You have very immature cousins. Don't let it get to you!!

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thnku all for such a nice advice :)thnks S and S u have such good guess about my nature :)
and wendy agree with u yeah they r immature becoz they think cloths r the only thing in life nothng else imp in wedding.
ok sahibaan01 thnks for nice advice:)

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Are you serious ??

You are marrying the guy, and offcourse you can ask him. And you should'nt be afraid to speak with him. He is going to be your other half.
Come on sister.

Screw male dominancy... (if that's even a word).....

When i got married i discussed every dress, song, cars, mehndi, baraat details with my wife.
It's so much fun.

Discuss with you fiance. Don't be afraid or shy.
:)

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1st day : ure choice

2nd day ; their choice

keep the equilibrium :)

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Why even talk to fiance then? Or you are just trying to find an excuse to talk? ;)